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Article 35A like marriage deed, says IAS officer

Article 35A like marriage deed, says IAS officer

Shah FaesalSrinagar : Shah Faesal, an IAS officer whose recourse to social media attracted disciplinary action earlier, on Sunday compared Article 35A of the Constitution to a marriage deed or ‘nikahnama’.

“You repeal it and the relationship is over. Nothing will remain to be discussed afterwards,” Faesal said.

Responding to Faesal’s remarks, former Minister and Peoples Democratic Party leader Naeem Akhtar retweeted the comment and added his own views.

“Repealing it will be like marital rape. Converting a constitutional relationship into occupation.”

Separatist leaders who have all along maintained that they do not recognize the supremacy of the Indian Constitution over the state have also closed their ranks to fight for preservation of Article 35A.

Promulgated on May 14, 1954, the Article gives state legislature the power to define the permanent residents of the state and also their privileges.

—IANS

Nikahnama Or A Conditional Marriage Contract

Nikahnama Or A Conditional Marriage Contract

nikaahReviewed and Approved by:

Dr. (Moulana) Sayed Salman Nadvi

(Rtd. Prof. of Islamic Studies, Univ. of Durban, S.Africa)

Prepared by:

Mufti Inamullah Mahaziri,( Chief Mufti Iqra Darul Qaza Mumbai)

(Moulana) Mohammed Shoaib Koti (Member Iqra Darul Qaza)

Mrs. Uzma Naheed (Director: Iqra Education Foundation, Mumbai &

Member Iqra Darul Qaza)

Consultants:

Advocate: Late Mr. S.M.A Kazmi

Moulana Muhammad Salman Nadvi ( Durban ( south Africa)

Mufti Barkatullah ( London)

 

 

Explanation of Terms Used in Nikahnama:

  1. First party/ One Part: The representative or supporter or witness from the Bridegroom’s side.
  2. Second party/ the other Part: The representative or supporter or witness from the Bride’s side.
  3. A’qid:  One party to the agreement (The Bridegroom)
  4. A’qida: Second Party to the agreement (The Bride)
  5. Mehr-e-Mo’ajjal : Upfront payment of Mehr (Dower)
  6. Mehre-Muwajjal: Deferred payment of Mehr (Dower)
  7. Eijaab: Person initiating agreement.
  8. Mankuha: The wife (with whom the marriage agreement was made.
  9. Al Muqir

 

 

 

 

PLEASE CANCEL WHICHEVER IS NOT APPLICABLE UNDER A, B & C BELOW

  1. Unmarried:

I _______________________________________________ hereby clarify that this is my first Nikah and I do not have any wife or a woman in my Nikah as of now. I own full responsibility to the consequences in case I am proved wrong subsequently.

____________

Signature                                                                                                      Date:————-

 

————————    OR   ———————–

  1. Married:

 

I, ____________________________________________ hereby declare and put on record that I am have married earlier and my wife is dead/ divorced (strike out whichever is not applicable). As of now I have no spouse. I own full responsibility to the consequences in case I am proved wrong subsequently.

 

____________

Signature                                                                                                 Date:————-

 

———————–    OR   ———————-

 

  1. Married with Wife/ Wives:

 

I, ____________________________________________ hereby declare and put on record that I am married and have One/ Two/Three spouse already. I also declare that:

 

  1. That this is my second/third/ fourth Nikah.
  2. That I have physical ability and financial resources to take of all my wives including the one I am marrying now.
  3. That I have taken permission from my existing wife/ wives for this (proposed) marriage and that I have made adequate arrangement for all the needs including their house for my existing wife/wives.
  4. That I have adequately made separate arrangement for housing for my new wife and all her needs.

I own full responsibility to the consequences in case I am proved wrong subsequently.

 

____________

Signature                                                                                         Date:————-

 

CONJUGAL RIGHTS IN ISLAM:

RIGHTS OF HUSBAND:

After the Nikah both spouses have various rights against each other. A few of them are enumerated here:

  1. After the Nikah the husband has right to consummate the relationship and it is binding for woman.
  2. Wife to take care of the needs of the husband and to keep him happy
  3. Wife to take care of the children, wealth and to avoid extravagance.
  4. Wife to keep her needs within the income of her husband and should not demand/ insist for more then what husband could afford.
  5. Wife to preserve her chastity and honor.

RIGHTS OF WIFE:

  1. Husband to take care of all the humanly needs of the wife including food, housing, clothing
  2. Husband to protect and support her in solving all problems she might face.
  3. Husband to take adequate care or her and provide for reasonable treatment during her illness, if any.  To send her to her mother’s home during illness is unethical and unacceptable.
  4. To live with her with love, peace and harmony and avoid rancor
  5. Beating wife, shouting in anger, insulting, making fun and inflicting mental torture and inhuman treatment is to be avoided by the husband.
  6. Husband will not coerce wife to do illegal, immoral and un-Islamic act.

—————-o———–O———–o—————

COVENANT:

 Terms and Conditions agreed to by both the parts

By A’qid – (Husband):

I hereby sincerely agree and undertake to abide by all the rules relating to rights of a wife in Islam some of which are enumerated below:

  1. I shall not inflict physical harm to my wife any time.
  2. As per my economic status I shall provide all the needs including housing, food and clothing etc., to my wife.
  3. I shall not leave my wife unnecessarily for a long period unless it is warranted by the nature of my work or it is necessary by the force of circumstances.
  4. I shall not leave my wife for a long time in her mother’s house against her will and wish.
  5. In case of difference of opinion/ tiffs I shall restrain myself and keep patience.
  6. I shall never utter triple Talaq in one sitting nor would I give Talaq in isolation.
  7. I shall not indulge in any act of violence, inhuman behavior, and wrongful confinement against my wife.
  8. I shall not indulge in extramarital/ illicit relationship with other/s.
  9. In case of rancor where we are unable to resolve the differences I shall use the procedure of appointing arbitrator (one from the each side) to facilitate resolving in issue between us).
  10. I shall not force her to do any act which is unlawful, immoral or against the spirit of Islam.
  11.  I shall not demand any thing (cash or kind) from my In-Laws. I shall not use coercion to extract anything from her relatives.

In case I decide to divorce her I shall use Ahsan form of Talaq.

____________________________

SIGNATURE OG BRIDEGROOM                   Date:_____________________

 

By A’qida (Wife):

I hereby sincerely agree and undertake to abide by all the rules relating to rights of a husband in Islam some of which are enumerated below:

  1. I shall not refuse or oppose my husband for any lawful demand made by him. On the contrary I shall abide by all such requests and wishes willfully.
  2. I shall not allow any person to enter my house whom my husband does not want to.
  3. I shall preserve my chastity and modesty and shall remain faithful to my husband.
  4. I shall protect my husband’s wealth and property to the best of my ability and shall avoid extravagance while spending money of my husband.
  5. I shall avoid all such acts which are disliked by my husband or that make him angry.
  6. I shall not force him to provide something which is beyond his sources / income.

_____________________

SIGNATURE OG BRIDE                                  Date:_____________________

Witness (1) ……………………………

Witness (2) ……………………………

 

Since both the partieshave agreed to the terms and conditions mentioned in this Nikahnama, the marriage is hereby solemnized today .

 

Seal Darul Qaza                                                Signature of Qazi

 

Mumbai, dated …………..
NIKAH NAMA  (Aqd e Nikah)

 

This Nikah is solemnized today dated………………..between the under mentioned parties: at……………………………

I as One Part (A’qid): Mr.. (Name of the Bridegroom) ______________________________

Aged ……….years,   Address___________________________________________

_________________________________________________phone No. : ………….

AND I as The Other Part ( A’qida): Miss. ___________________________________                                                                                           (Name of the Bride)

Aged _______years,   Address:____________________________________________

Phone No. :____________________    Do hereby accept all the terms and condition mentioned herein  and do hereby agree and undertake to abide by all of them.

MEHR

Meher-e-Mo’ajjal

Details
Rs./Quantity

UPFRONT PYMENT PART/ FULL

CASH:                             

Upfront (Mo’ajjal)

Deferred (Muwajjal)

 

Rs………..

Rs………..

Rs………..

Gold/ Silver/ Diamonds etc.

Upfront (Mo’ajjal)

Deferred (Muwajjal)

 

Quantity
Property/ Land/ House etc.

Upfront (Mo’ajjal)

Deferred (Muwajjal)

 

Details

Shares/ Bonds/ Income Certificates

Upfront (Mo’ajjal)

Deferred (Muwajjal)

Details/Value

 

Meher-e-Mo’ajjal

Details

 

Rs./Quantity

DEFERRED PYMENT

CASH:                             

 

Rs………..

 

Gold/ Silver/ Diamonds etc.

 

Quantity
Property/ Land/ House etc.

 

Details

Shares/ Bonds/ Income Certificates

 

Details/Value
NOTE:

In this type of Meher it is advisable to define Mehr in terms of gold/ silver quantity instead of amount of cash, the value of which gets depleted over the years and lose it’s real value fixed at the time of Nikah, due to inflation

CONDITIONS

Since both the party to this Nikah are Muslims and they have agreed to abide by all the terms and conditions mentioned herein without any coercion the Nikah between the above named has been solemnized as per Islamic Shariah. It is now incumbent upon both the parties to this Nikahnama accept and abide by following terms and act accordingly:

  1. Both the Parties to this Nikahnama have accepted and agreed to abide by all the terms/ conditions and other details given in this Nikahnama.
  2. Husband will pay at least _______% of the Meher (Cash or kind) before consummating the marriage.
  3. In case of divorce the Mehr will be payable immediately irrespective of whether it was Mu’ajjal (Immediate) or Muwajjal (Deferred) and the husband will not delay its payment
  4. (a) In case the Husband pronounces triple Talaq in one sitting (Talaq-e-Mughalliza) than the Mehr amount would be doubled as penalty and the husband agrees to pay it immediately.

(b) the wife will have a right on husband’s property/ies/ asettes to the extent of her      dues under this marriage contract and shall have right to possess/occupy the same      till  all her dues including Mehr are paid in full.

  1. The husband shall not ask or force wife for any unlawful, immoral act or an act, which is forbidden in Islam.
  2. The wife will have full and exclusive rights on all the gifts whether received in cash or kind from her parents or other relatives. The husband shall have no right whatsoever to use or dispose them off without express consent of the wife.
  3. (a) Either side shall not torture each other, mentally or physically under any pretext.

(b) Either side shall not insult, intimidate each other or involve in inhuman behavior

(c ) In case the wife goes to her parent’s house and remain there for unduly long time  without the consent of her husband, this would be construed as violation of this  agreement that will tantamount to breach of contract.

(d) Similarly, if the husband leaves his wife to her parents’ house for unduly long        time  without  consent and will of the wife this would also construe as violation of this  code of conduct that will tantamount to breach of contract.

(e) If either side indulges in extra marital/ illicit relationship with another man/             women, this will be construed as extreme mental torture and will tantamount to breach of contract.

  1. If the husband marries another woman/ takes another wife than he will allow his existing wife (second party to this agreement) to continue to reside in the same house in which she used to reside. He shall also take care of her needs like food, clothing, medication , hospitalization etc. And he will make separate arrangement from the new/ second wife.
  2. In case of differences/ tiffs/ rancor, both the side will follow the rule of Quran and will abide by the ruling of the two arbitrators (one from each side) appointed by them for this purpose.
  3. In case of divorce, (i) the husband will pay maintenance (food/clothing/housing etc) to the divorced wife during Iddat period. (ii) the divorced wife will have the right to keep children with her (boys/s till 7years age) and the husband shall have to pay the maintenance of the children including educational and medical expenses even when the children are staying with divorced wife. (iii) and all the expenses including maintenance, education, medical and marriage expenses of girl/s will be born by the father even though the girl/s is/are staying with her/their mother the divorced wife.
  4. In case of discrepancies as to the meaning/ explanation or interpretation of any of the clauses mentioned herein, the opinion of an established and reputed Darul Qaza or Imarat-e-Shariyah would be acceptable and abiding by both sides.
  5. In case of litigation all such legal actions will be subject to the jurisdiction of the court/s where the wife lives.

ARBITERATION:

In case of differences between the two sides, each spouse will appoint an arbitrators (One from each side) who will try to resolve the issues failing which they will facilitate to and help both sides reach decision on following issues:

  • Amount and mode of payment of Maintenance (Nafqa) by the husband to wife during Iddat
  • Payment of Mehr or its arrears if any.
  • To ascertain the details of Wife’s property or gifts etc., that she had received from her parents and relatives and to ensure that they are in possession of wife.
  • Reasonable sum in cash or kind as per Quran (Mata-e-Ma’roof)
  • Custody or children and payment of their maintenance/ education/ marriage etc., by the husband and periodical meeting of children with their father.

Note: In case of difference among Arbitrators, a third arbitrator will be appointed with the consent of both sides.

Tafweez-e-Talaq : DELEGATION OF RIGHT OF TALAQ

The husband hereby delegates to his wife under this contact his right to pronounce single “Talaq-I Bain” on her . The wife owes to use this right judiciously.

Possible grounds for Tafweez-e-Talaq

Husband delegates the right to his wife to pronounce one Talaq-e- Bai’n on her on one any of the following grounds:

  1. Absence of conjugal rights for continuously for six months or more
  2. Non Payment of sustenance continuously for six months or more
  3. Physical torture
  4. Drinking

___________________                                                                      ______________

Signature of Bridegroom                                                                    Signature of Wife

 

Place:___________________                                                 Date__________________
CERTIFICATE OF MARRIAGE

 

Date………………….                                                                            No:………………….

 

S.No. Party Details Signature
1 Bridegroom Name:

Father’s Name:

Age:

Address:

Status: unmarried/ married/ widower

 

2 Bride Name:

Father’s Name:

Age

Address:

Status: unmarried/ married/ widow/ divorcee

 

3 Meher Total Meher:                              Rs…………

Upfront (Mo’ajjal)                     Rs………..

Deferred (Muwajjal)                  Rs………..

 

Details as per earlier pages of this Nikahnama
4 Witnesses      (1)

 

 

(2)

Mr………………………….age……

Add:…………………………….

 

Mr………………………….age……

Add:…………………………….

 

 

 

Signature

 

Signature

 

5 Vakil’s details Mr………………………….age……

Add:…………………………….

 

 

 

Signature

6 Qazi or his representative Name in full………………………………

Address………………………………….

 

 

 

Since both the partieshave agreed to the terms and conditions mentioned in this Nikahnama, the marriage is hereby solemnized today .

Seal Darul Qaza                                                Signature of Qazi

 

 First Original…….For husband

Second Original….For wife

Third Original…….For Qazi

Reasons for Drafting a Conditional Marriage Contract (Nikahnama)

Reasons for Drafting a Conditional Marriage Contract (Nikahnama)

Saudi womenBy Uzma Naheed, Member All India Muslim Personal Law Board,Mumbai

  • Alhamdulillah, Muslim Personal Law Board has taken bold steps to thwart the political agenda of ruling party by starting a nationwide campaign against their intention to ban triple talaq and impose Uniform Civil Code on Muslims. Though this period was quite disturbing, there is a positive side of this chaos that Muslims in general gained knowledge about talaq, its forms and the correct way of giving talaq if need be. There are questions raised by the so called progressive people including Muslims who say that if triple talaq is criminal then why you allow it to be used. Like any other law we have no means to ensure that all the laws are adhered to and there are always people who defy them. In such eventuality why the culprit is not punished or penalized for the crime he has committed. In early period of Islam which is known as Khairul Quroon ( the best of times). Such offenders were punished whereas we have no law in personal law to check this menace which is very much against the tenets of Islam.

    Since this required a change of law or making a new law which was not practical our group discussed with the then  President of Muslim Personal Law Board Qazi Mujahidul Islam Rehmatullah Allaih and other Ulama about putting in conditions in Nikahnama which was done a century back by Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanwi (Rehmatullah Alaih).  This conditional Nikahnama was sent to over 300 Ulama and Muftis all over India byr Moulana Mujahidul Islam for opinion. When all these opinions wre received they were published in book form by Qazi sahib with a title Al Ishtrat fin Nikah (Conditions in marriage contract). Almost all of them agreed that conditions could be put in marriage contract at the time of Nikah and they are valid.

    For example if a husband utter triple talaq which is a crime in Islam and for which we have no  provision to  punish; under such circumstances the women have no option except to file a suit against such men and a large  number of cases are pending in courts and many are adjudicated against men; this interferes with our personal laws. Under conditional Nikahnama a provision could be incorporated that in such eventuality the Mehr would be doubled or tripled which will be a punishment to ooffenders; such conditions are also valid under Indian contract act and could be imposed legally and Muslim women

    It was a very carefully designed Nikahnama in which  women’s rights were protected.  Muslim Personal Law Board has accepted the conditional marriage contract with modifications and changes in Nikahnama. The fact is that the concept of Nikahnama was accepted by the board and it was a big achievement.

    The reasons for drafting Nikahnama are enumerated below:

    • In India Muslims have no power to initiate punitive action against those who violates Shariah. We have no courts to, where the spouses could present their cases and the correct position could be adjudged when there are differences between husband and wife.
    • Its pity that Muslims are so ignorant and the triple talaq is rampant; men now started using SMS, email and fax for pronouncing talaq. Such women neither get their Meher agreed at the time of Nikah nor would they get paid the maintenance during Iddat period, which is a must in Shariah.
    • All women, who mostly belong to very poor families, are subjected to worst kind of atrocities after talaq and have no protection whatsoever. Particularly when the husband walks away from her life leaving children unattended. The woman has to take care of children and usually does odd jobs and lives in extremely poor condition. Children hardly get any education and resort to begging or criminal activities.
    • It will not be proper to think that mere reforms would be enough to rectify the situation unless some punitive action is taken against the erring people or some deterrent is available. Even in early period of Islam punishments were given to those Muslims who were found guilty of violating any matrimonial law. So mere reforms in society would not stop these evil practices.
    • With a view to make such people punishable under the law of the land the only option available to us is to draft a conditional marriage Contract (Nikahnama) in which, some conditions could be stipulated from girl’s side to protect her in untoward circumstances like second marriage leaving first wife and her children, non payment of maintenance. Wife beating and cruelty etc.
    • There is no need to talk about banning triple talaq for the only difference is whether it would be construed as one talaq or three talaq, which the scholars alone would decide. However all the schools of thought unanimously declared that this is most heinous act a man could commit, The question is what we could do to stop this evil practice. Unfortunately our Ulama have also not covered matrimonial issues in their speeches to address this issue, which could have been of great help for Muslim women.
    • Since this issue was raised by national media frequently, the Muslims in general took it as media hype and did not find it necessary to address the issue. However, social activists who are working at grass root level knew that the problem is acute and need urgent attention particularly the Muslim Personal Law Board.
    • An argument pushed against Nikahnama is that if the Nikahnama is capable of solving all the matrimonial issues. The fact is no law is capable to solving all the problems. We have the best laws provided by Quran and hadith and yet we have so many crimes both civil and criminal. The fact is that once the society does have laws and authority to enforce those laws, either the crimes are not committed or the culprits are punished suitably. Thus the punishment works as deterrent. In case of Muslim Personal law though the husband pronouncing talaq without any valid reason is valid, the punitive laws to punish such men, which were prevailing in early days of Islam are not enforceable. As a result the perpetrator of such crimes go unpunished.
    • In view of this anomaly, the judiciary started interpreting Quran and Islamic laws as per their wish and whims and many judgments have come in last few years, which are against the spirit of Islamic laws. The fault here does not lie with Islamic laws but partial implementation of the same.
    • One way to address this issue is to ask the government to modify criminal procedure code and incorporate certain punitive actions against such Muslims who violate Personal laws or to have the marriage, which is a contract in Islam with a conditional marriage contact (Nikahnama), which is perfectly valid in Islam.
    • In Islam a men could divorce his wife by utterance of word Talaq and a woman has to have Khula if she wants to have talaq. The procedure for Khula has been made so cumbersome that usually women avoid using it and forced to live a life of rancor or go to a court of law. We know that Amarat Shariyah or Shariat courts are limited where women could reach for her rights. Moreover, women usually feel shy of telling many a things before men Qazi about her husband that she did not like. Sometimes women face problem, as the husband does not pay her maintenance or expenses for the children, or drinks alcohol or beats the wife regularly when drunk. Under such extreme situations we suggested the delegated right in woman at the time of marriage to give talaq if man failed to give maintenance for her and children for six months, or drinks alcohol or beats her, which is valid in Islam.
    • Alternatively, Muslim Personal Law Board could appoint Imams of various large mosques in each city who would be authorized to hear such cases and if satisfied than declare such marriage as null and void separating women from her husband.
    • Originally the idea of a conditional marriage contract (Nikahnama) was taken from the book “ Al Heelatn Najiza” by most renowned scholar Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi and a model Nikahnama was drafter and presented before Moulana Mujahidul Islam Qasmi who sent copies of the Nikahnama to more than 300 scholars/ ulama/ Muftis. Their opinions were collected and published by Fiqha Academy with the title “Ishtarat Fin Nikah” meaning Conditions under marriage. Most of the ulama/ Muftis favored putting conditions in marriage contract and found it perfectly valid in Islamic laws.
    • Meher is the right of woman. Just as in every contract there has to be a consideration, in marriage Meher is the consideration, without which a contract of marriage is invalid. Unfortunately, women are asked to forego Meher or is considered more pious act if she refuses to accept it. Usually its payment is deferred sometimes for decades during which period it’s value goes miserably down due to inflationary pressure. A Meher of Rs.10,000/- twenty year ago was quite a big sum, which has become miserably low as of now. It is necessary that in Nikahnama we also suggest that Meher could be in Shares, Bonds, Gold and silver or property etc., where the value appreciates and takes care of inflation.
    • It’s common knowledge that men leave wives after sudden divorce and do not pay even for sustenance of children, which is his duty and responsibility. The women though illiterate work and take care of children whereas men after divorce are free to marry again and live normal life. The Nikahnama also takes acre of such situation where a condition to the effect could be incorporated that the man would be responsible for sustenance, education and health care of children who would remain with their mother till they are grown up.
    • We have different schools of thought and do accept the provisions of other fiqh in case of need. In case of Fiqh Imam Abu Hanfia if the husband is missing than the wife has to wait her entire life and cannot marry any other person. During the time of Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi, some women  found apostacy as easy way to dissolve the marriage and converted to other religion so that their nikah is automatically annulled and they married non Muslims. In order to check this menace, Moulana Thanwi invited Ulama of various schools of thought and  found a solution in Fiqh Imam Hambal where the nikah can be annulled after two years.  Today since triple Talaq has been a cause of hardship for women its advisable that Ulama should sit together and finmd a way out. In Nikah Nama the provisions of variouis fiqh could be ibncorporated if need be.